The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to
get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a
gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old
lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.~~She said, "Hi
handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?" I
laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a
giant squeeze.~~"Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.
She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a
couple of children, and then retire and travel." "No seriously," I asked.~~I was
curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.
"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she
told me.~~After class we walked to the student union building and shared a
chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three
months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerised
listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with
me.~~Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and easily made
friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she revelled in the
attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.~~At
the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet and
I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the
podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by
five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the
microphone and simply said "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent
and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me
just tell you what I know."~~As we laughed she cleared her throat and
began:~~"We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop
playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and
achieving success.~~"You have to laugh and find humour every day. You've got to
have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking
around who are dead and don't even know it!~~"There is a huge difference between
growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for
one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old.
If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything
I will turn eighty-eight. Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent
or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in
change.~~"Have no regrets. The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we
did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are
those with regrets."~~She concluded her speech by courageously singing "The
Rose." She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our
daily lives.~~At the years end Rose finished the college degree she had begun
all those years ago. One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her
sleep.~~Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to
the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you
can possibly be.~~*******************************~~I hope that you've enjoyed
the story of Rose as much as I did. I give Thanks to ~~Ohmster~~ who clean
this up and posted this beatutiful page in the Outlook Express 5
Newsgroup and Thanks to Edgar for the
terrific script and to Micheal who first posted this wonderful email in the
newsgroup, at least as far as I know. All images enclosed now with cleaner asf
script, courtesy of Mamselle.~ Again, I take no credit for this.